The “friendzone” is such a stupid concept. Last time I checked women were allowed to make decisions about who they dated. If a woman doesn’t have feelings for you, it doesn’t make her a bad person or “a bitch”. She’s allowed to not want to date you. Not only is it immature to complain about a girl being “a bitch” for “friend-zoning” you; it’s also misogynist for acting like she doesn’t have that right.
Hey just “stumbled” onto this and has a good old chuckle. I’m a chick and from my point of view it is the womans fault a majority of the time. Women are notorious for not being able to make up their minds and not being brave enough to say “I have no interest in you whatsoever. However, if you have feelings for me then I suggest we don’t talk for a while. Alternatively, I could hook you up with one of my nicer, much more attractive friends.”
Although, some girls (like me) are just plain stupid as shit and don’t realise their friend has feelings for them until they get kissed. But I do have a lot of male friends who have never tried anything with me and never shown any interest. So, “Dan is a woman” girls and guys can be friends. It just takes different perspective and for both persons to have boundaries set. Now, I know that’s a wild concept for most but it can be done.
To put it in plan terms, “Erry mothafucka shuld chil da fuck out.”
Some women are manipulative as fuck and personally if you get manipulated that’s your own damn fault. Abort mission now all those “stuck in the friendzone.”
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Dan it’s fine if a woman (aka YOU) don’t want to date someone. What’s not ok is when they hang around you all the time after you have made it clear you are interested. Men and women were not meant to be “friends”.
Dan is really Danielle
April 21, 2012 at 11:35 pm - Reply
@Dan: A girl is misandrist aka a bitch if she wants to treat you like you’re just one of the girls and wants you to listen to her blab about how much she likes some guy or whatever else she talks about with her other girlfriends AFTER you told her you are interested in her as more than a friend. If a male and female claim they are ‘friends’ you can bet one of them likes the other as more than just a friend. Like the comment from @Dan is a woman: Men and women were not meant to be ‘friends’. Get with the program @Dan.
To the two guys making fun of Dan: this is exactly why sexist douchebags like you don’t even get to the friendzone. You call Dan a woman as though it’s an insult, then claim that it’s the woman’s fault for wanting to be friends after the man declares his interest; it’s very simple for a guy to walk away if he’s not interested in being just friends. It is by no means the woman’s obligation to either have sex with or avoid him
You may not be able to be just friends with a member of the opposite sex, but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible or unnatural.
I could not agree more with Wow. I’m a woman, and I have a lot of male friends! Only once did I lose a friend when I told him that I would never date him, and I would call that a special case. Many of my friends have admitted at some point that they would like to date me, but when I told them it wouldn’t happen we didn’t just STOP being friends. I’ve even hooked some of them up with my friends. Seriously guys, are you making the argument that you simply CANNOT see women as anything more than a sexual object, such that it blinds you to her as a person and therefore potential friend?
@Dan… does your arm hurt from trying to pat yourself on the back? You’re a douche dude, grow a set of balls. The concept just makes fun of dudes put into situations with a girl that even the girl’s boyfriend wouldn’t be in. It is mainly directed at the spineless guys, doing anything to make the girl happy or to notice him, not the women being bitches. However, there are those situations like the one depicted in the second picture, or the second from last picture as well that would be the result of the woman being a dumb bitch. Just wanted to let you know how ridiculous you made yourself look. Same goes for whoever tried to defend you. Its supposed to make you laugh, you pretentious shit heads =D
Thank God I'm Married Now
April 25, 2012 at 11:54 pm - Reply
HA! It’s hilarious how many guys say they just want a girl to be straight forward, but you don’t. I know from experience, I can’t count how many times guys got butt hurt as soon as I told them plainly that I’m not interested. I try to be as honest and nice as possible, but I’ve learned that it doesn’t matter how or when I tell a guy that I’m not interested, it’s always an ordeal.
I’ve had guys storm out of the room and never talk to me again, guys who just kept begging or saying that I was horrible for not letting them have one date (yet other guys have said I was horrible for going on a date if I wasn’t interested), guys bad-mouth me to coworkers, friends etc. for not being interested, and guys who come to my house and pound on the door when I stop answering phone calls (after I tell them I’m not interested). It’s bad enough when a guy does anything like that, but It’s a whole ‘nother bag of shit when a guy only drops subtle hints so as not to be rejected. These sniveling bastards weasel their way in disguised as a friend so that no matter what you do you’re the bad guy. If you say outright that you’re not interested, they say they weren’t either and accuse you of being conceded. If you simply wait for them to say something and then reject them, you’re a tease and they’re angry for wasting their time. If you drop subtle hints that you’re not interested, they ignore them.
Does any of this sound familiar assholes? I know girls aren’t blameless or perfect when it comes to dating but I can tell you any of the stuff you’re bitching about is probably your own fault. Until you grow up you’ll be forever in the friend zone.
Friend Zone: When a woman has the right to make a choice about who she wants to date.
Men need to get over the fact that just because you throw yourselves at a woman doesn’t mean she’s going to just automatically be in love with you.
If she’s not into you, cut your losses, and look for someone new. Why are you being so pathetic and insecure as to cling to a person who doesn’t want you?
Do yourself a favor, be a real man, and find a woman who will appreciate you. Stop sitting around and bitching. The only person whose fault it is that you’re single is YOU.
The reason for all the feminen backlash is they dont understand the friendzone concept. Its not just being friends with guys, thats not a problem. Its calling the guys up who have already said they care about you, and then bitch about how there are no good guys out there whatsoever. When most the time that guy is particularly good, maybe not as good looking… in my case thats not true, I happen to be slammin, but I think I’ve made my point. Guys can be friends without being in the friendzone. The guys in the friendzone are the ones you call crying and you don’t even think for a second, oh wait this guy has said he liked me this might make him sad or piss him off im not going to do this because hes my friend. At the time you think that thought and not call him he will no longer be in the friendzone and just a friend. Women stop being a stereotype and think for once.
I’m a woman and I can see that half of the female replies on this are ridiculous. Way too many women take their guy friends for granted and go after jerks. I know this because I made that mistake once. I almost broke my best friend’s heart because I knew he wouldn’t give up on me. I think that’s why so many women “friendzone” guys; somewhere deep down they know they’re gonna screw things up in their next relationship, and they don’t want to screw things up with their “best guy friend”. But in reality, they’re just breaking his heart.
Guess what? I’ve been in relationship with my best friend for over a year now. And it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. Women need to realize that they CAN date their best friend. The fact that they’re that close to a guy should be a sign to them that MAYBE being with that guy might be a good idea. Just saying.
A real friend shouldn’t feel entitled to another “friend’s” body just for treating them like a decent person. If you are a self proclaimed “nice guy” and do feel this way, you aren’t a real friend, and you aren’t a nice person, and chances are you are pursuing this girl for reasons just as shallow as hers when she rejects you.
Sorry, but if your heart’s not in it, why force it to be something that it isn’t. I made the mistake of dating my best friend because I thought “Why not?” 2 years later we are now back to being best friends because I had to face the fact that I wasn’t into that person romantically not in the least, and that it was foolish of me to force myself to feel something I didn’t. In fact, I was miserable when it came time to share physical affection. It was a lesson in honesty. Our friendship was so strong however, that we actually still live together and are free to date other people, no problem. We never fight, never argue, and openly talk about pretty much everything. Things are actually LESS awkward now that the romance bit is no longer a factor.
Bottom line (and this is just what I believe personally, doesn’t necessarily apply to everyone): A mere person can fill the metaphorical emotional emptiness inside of you only so much. To expect more is to be unrealistic, and puts too much emotional obligation upon the other person. Learn to love and accept yourself and you won’t NEED anyone to do it for you. I’m not saying it isn’t nice to get some every now and then.
I completely agree with Dan. I had a friend in high school who I’d known all of my life. He was a nice guy but part of him creeped me out. He got to be obsessed with me and got angry that I wouldn’t date him. He rubbed it in my face if it didn’t work with other guys. I hated being treated like I was a cruel bitch for not dating him. I never led him on but just wasn’t interested in him that way. Years later he came out of the closet. Maybe that’s why, who knows. I just think a woman deserves to have a say over whether she’s interested without being a bitch. You can’t control who you click with. Chemistry is a complicated thing and alot of it is chemical or subconscious. Just because you’re a nice guy and she wants a nice guy doesn’t mean she should date you. What she really wants is a nice guy she’s attracted to or clicks with. That’s something you can’t force.
why the hell is this being analyzed so deeply..good god. the first pic said it all.
EXTREMELY Annoyed
July 16, 2012 at 6:39 pm - Reply
I am so sick of seeing pictures like this, and all these comments by MEN about how stupid their girl friends are that they don’t realize that they like them.
How about you actually tell your friend that you like her, because, believe it or not, us girls are not freaking mind readers!!!! And we’re probably a little too stressed out with everything (including MEN) that we don’t notice the LITTLE things that MIGHT mean that someone likes us!!
The first pic DOES say it all. Seriously. Guys stop being butt-hurt because girls don’t want you. There’s a reason they don’t want you. You don’t know how to act around women. Simple as that. If you just want to get laid, go read “The Game” by Neil Strauss and you will be well on your way to a new sex life. If you want to be a real man, stop caring about any of this shit and marry the beautiful girl that falls into your arms when you have made YOURSELF into a strong, successful individual. She’ll be there, I promise.
I have to laugh when I see these pathetic guys playing bitch to get a girl and then being stunned that that strategy isn’t getting them anywhere with women. There’s being nice to women (Helping her with physical baggage), and then there’s being creepy nice (Always willing to listen to her emotional baggage especially about her guy interests). I see this first hand watching one of my buddies every time he falls for a girl. He overplays the nice guy thing so much that the girl only see’s him as another girlfriend. The lesson is that us men need to start learning to be the man that a girl wants, not another one of her girlfriends. Don’t get me wrong, I know that there are some truly evil girls who just use guys for whatever reason. It can happen to any guy. But come on people, playing bitch all the time won’t get you anywhere.
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I want to be part of zone 100
sexy farm girls is probably the worst page to like on facebook.
You will be Ben, don’t worry.
Friend Zone=A chicks lame way of telling you shes not interested in your ugly a..
True Story
That last one was particularly painful. What in the flying f**k are mega-best friends, anyway?
Maybe you boys should consider not falling for bitches.
Just as a thought… they’re not as “sweet” as you imagine.
I married the girl who friendzoned me
I’m ready to friendzone my boyfriend and I will always love him but not his dark side.
singh, bet you had to watch her fuck all the guys around her until she finally settled on you.
The “friendzone” is such a stupid concept. Last time I checked women were allowed to make decisions about who they dated. If a woman doesn’t have feelings for you, it doesn’t make her a bad person or “a bitch”. She’s allowed to not want to date you. Not only is it immature to complain about a girl being “a bitch” for “friend-zoning” you; it’s also misogynist for acting like she doesn’t have that right.
Hey just “stumbled” onto this and has a good old chuckle. I’m a chick and from my point of view it is the womans fault a majority of the time. Women are notorious for not being able to make up their minds and not being brave enough to say “I have no interest in you whatsoever. However, if you have feelings for me then I suggest we don’t talk for a while. Alternatively, I could hook you up with one of my nicer, much more attractive friends.”
Although, some girls (like me) are just plain stupid as shit and don’t realise their friend has feelings for them until they get kissed. But I do have a lot of male friends who have never tried anything with me and never shown any interest. So, “Dan is a woman” girls and guys can be friends. It just takes different perspective and for both persons to have boundaries set. Now, I know that’s a wild concept for most but it can be done.
To put it in plan terms, “Erry mothafucka shuld chil da fuck out.”
Some women are manipulative as fuck and personally if you get manipulated that’s your own damn fault. Abort mission now all those “stuck in the friendzone.”
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Dan it’s fine if a woman (aka YOU) don’t want to date someone. What’s not ok is when they hang around you all the time after you have made it clear you are interested. Men and women were not meant to be “friends”.
@Dan: A girl is misandrist aka a bitch if she wants to treat you like you’re just one of the girls and wants you to listen to her blab about how much she likes some guy or whatever else she talks about with her other girlfriends AFTER you told her you are interested in her as more than a friend. If a male and female claim they are ‘friends’ you can bet one of them likes the other as more than just a friend. Like the comment from @Dan is a woman: Men and women were not meant to be ‘friends’. Get with the program @Dan.
To the two guys making fun of Dan: this is exactly why sexist douchebags like you don’t even get to the friendzone.
You call Dan a woman as though it’s an insult, then claim that it’s the woman’s fault for wanting to be friends after the man declares his interest; it’s very simple for a guy to walk away if he’s not interested in being just friends. It is by no means the woman’s obligation to either have sex with or avoid him
You may not be able to be just friends with a member of the opposite sex, but that doesn’t mean it’s impossible or unnatural.
I could not agree more with Wow. I’m a woman, and I have a lot of male friends! Only once did I lose a friend when I told him that I would never date him, and I would call that a special case. Many of my friends have admitted at some point that they would like to date me, but when I told them it wouldn’t happen we didn’t just STOP being friends. I’ve even hooked some of them up with my friends. Seriously guys, are you making the argument that you simply CANNOT see women as anything more than a sexual object, such that it blinds you to her as a person and therefore potential friend?
@Dan… does your arm hurt from trying to pat yourself on the back? You’re a douche dude, grow a set of balls. The concept just makes fun of dudes put into situations with a girl that even the girl’s boyfriend wouldn’t be in. It is mainly directed at the spineless guys, doing anything to make the girl happy or to notice him, not the women being bitches. However, there are those situations like the one depicted in the second picture, or the second from last picture as well that would be the result of the woman being a dumb bitch. Just wanted to let you know how ridiculous you made yourself look. Same goes for whoever tried to defend you. Its supposed to make you laugh, you pretentious shit heads =D
HA! It’s hilarious how many guys say they just want a girl to be straight forward, but you don’t. I know from experience, I can’t count how many times guys got butt hurt as soon as I told them plainly that I’m not interested. I try to be as honest and nice as possible, but I’ve learned that it doesn’t matter how or when I tell a guy that I’m not interested, it’s always an ordeal.
I’ve had guys storm out of the room and never talk to me again, guys who just kept begging or saying that I was horrible for not letting them have one date (yet other guys have said I was horrible for going on a date if I wasn’t interested), guys bad-mouth me to coworkers, friends etc. for not being interested, and guys who come to my house and pound on the door when I stop answering phone calls (after I tell them I’m not interested). It’s bad enough when a guy does anything like that, but It’s a whole ‘nother bag of shit when a guy only drops subtle hints so as not to be rejected. These sniveling bastards weasel their way in disguised as a friend so that no matter what you do you’re the bad guy. If you say outright that you’re not interested, they say they weren’t either and accuse you of being conceded. If you simply wait for them to say something and then reject them, you’re a tease and they’re angry for wasting their time. If you drop subtle hints that you’re not interested, they ignore them.
Does any of this sound familiar assholes? I know girls aren’t blameless or perfect when it comes to dating but I can tell you any of the stuff you’re bitching about is probably your own fault. Until you grow up you’ll be forever in the friend zone.
Friend Zone: When a woman has the right to make a choice about who she wants to date.
Men need to get over the fact that just because you throw yourselves at a woman doesn’t mean she’s going to just automatically be in love with you.
If she’s not into you, cut your losses, and look for someone new. Why are you being so pathetic and insecure as to cling to a person who doesn’t want you?
Do yourself a favor, be a real man, and find a woman who will appreciate you. Stop sitting around and bitching. The only person whose fault it is that you’re single is YOU.
Doesn’t really matter who *causes* it, the Friend-Zone exists simply by the topic existing.
Maybe it’s pathetic men, maybe it’s apathetic women, maybe a mixture, but it’s still funny as all get out and frustrating for those involved!
Especially if the woman in question goes on about how she can’t find anyone who respects/won’t hurt/etc. her.
The reason for all the feminen backlash is they dont understand the friendzone concept. Its not just being friends with guys, thats not a problem. Its calling the guys up who have already said they care about you, and then bitch about how there are no good guys out there whatsoever. When most the time that guy is particularly good, maybe not as good looking… in my case thats not true, I happen to be slammin, but I think I’ve made my point. Guys can be friends without being in the friendzone. The guys in the friendzone are the ones you call crying and you don’t even think for a second, oh wait this guy has said he liked me this might make him sad or piss him off im not going to do this because hes my friend. At the time you think that thought and not call him he will no longer be in the friendzone and just a friend. Women stop being a stereotype and think for once.
Thank you^.
I’m a woman and I can see that half of the female replies on this are ridiculous. Way too many women take their guy friends for granted and go after jerks. I know this because I made that mistake once. I almost broke my best friend’s heart because I knew he wouldn’t give up on me. I think that’s why so many women “friendzone” guys; somewhere deep down they know they’re gonna screw things up in their next relationship, and they don’t want to screw things up with their “best guy friend”. But in reality, they’re just breaking his heart.
Guess what? I’ve been in relationship with my best friend for over a year now. And it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. Women need to realize that they CAN date their best friend. The fact that they’re that close to a guy should be a sign to them that MAYBE being with that guy might be a good idea. Just saying.
A real friend shouldn’t feel entitled to another “friend’s” body just for treating them like a decent person. If you are a self proclaimed “nice guy” and do feel this way, you aren’t a real friend, and you aren’t a nice person, and chances are you are pursuing this girl for reasons just as shallow as hers when she rejects you.
I went up to my best friend one day and asked if I friendzoned him he said “what do you think?” then handed me one of my favorite flowers. I felt bad…
Sorry, but if your heart’s not in it, why force it to be something that it isn’t. I made the mistake of dating my best friend because I thought “Why not?” 2 years later we are now back to being best friends because I had to face the fact that I wasn’t into that person romantically not in the least, and that it was foolish of me to force myself to feel something I didn’t. In fact, I was miserable when it came time to share physical affection. It was a lesson in honesty. Our friendship was so strong however, that we actually still live together and are free to date other people, no problem. We never fight, never argue, and openly talk about pretty much everything. Things are actually LESS awkward now that the romance bit is no longer a factor.
Bottom line (and this is just what I believe personally, doesn’t necessarily apply to everyone): A mere person can fill the metaphorical emotional emptiness inside of you only so much. To expect more is to be unrealistic, and puts too much emotional obligation upon the other person. Learn to love and accept yourself and you won’t NEED anyone to do it for you. I’m not saying it isn’t nice to get some every now and then.
I completely agree with Dan. I had a friend in high school who I’d known all of my life. He was a nice guy but part of him creeped me out. He got to be obsessed with me and got angry that I wouldn’t date him. He rubbed it in my face if it didn’t work with other guys. I hated being treated like I was a cruel bitch for not dating him. I never led him on but just wasn’t interested in him that way. Years later he came out of the closet. Maybe that’s why, who knows. I just think a woman deserves to have a say over whether she’s interested without being a bitch. You can’t control who you click with. Chemistry is a complicated thing and alot of it is chemical or subconscious. Just because you’re a nice guy and she wants a nice guy doesn’t mean she should date you. What she really wants is a nice guy she’s attracted to or clicks with. That’s something you can’t force.
why the hell is this being analyzed so deeply..good god. the first pic said it all.
I am so sick of seeing pictures like this, and all these comments by MEN about how stupid their girl friends are that they don’t realize that they like them.
How about you actually tell your friend that you like her, because, believe it or not, us girls are not freaking mind readers!!!! And we’re probably a little too stressed out with everything (including MEN) that we don’t notice the LITTLE things that MIGHT mean that someone likes us!!
So get over it.
Friendzoned = to much of a pussy to speak up, therefore undeserving of the pussy!
The first pic DOES say it all. Seriously. Guys stop being butt-hurt because girls don’t want you. There’s a reason they don’t want you. You don’t know how to act around women. Simple as that. If you just want to get laid, go read “The Game” by Neil Strauss and you will be well on your way to a new sex life. If you want to be a real man, stop caring about any of this shit and marry the beautiful girl that falls into your arms when you have made YOURSELF into a strong, successful individual. She’ll be there, I promise.
I have to laugh when I see these pathetic guys playing bitch to get a girl and then being stunned that that strategy isn’t getting them anywhere with women. There’s being nice to women (Helping her with physical baggage), and then there’s being creepy nice (Always willing to listen to her emotional baggage especially about her guy interests). I see this first hand watching one of my buddies every time he falls for a girl. He overplays the nice guy thing so much that the girl only see’s him as another girlfriend. The lesson is that us men need to start learning to be the man that a girl wants, not another one of her girlfriends. Don’t get me wrong, I know that there are some truly evil girls who just use guys for whatever reason. It can happen to any guy. But come on people, playing bitch all the time won’t get you anywhere.